1. Ese ni uruhande rumwe kubifata nkigipupe cyibitsina?
Kubakoresha, hari ubwoko bwo gupfobya "igitsina cy'igitsina", nkaho afite igipupe, ni ikigoryi.Rimwe na rimwe, abakoresha ntibaryamana nayo, ndetse bararya kandi bagahoberana, bakayita “igipupe cy'igitsina” nkaho ari umwanda.Abakoresha bakeneye kuba euphemistic kandi itagaragara.Mubyukuri, uko mbibona, iki gitekerezo ni gito cyane kubisobanuro no gusobanukirwa igitsina, kandi tugomba kwagura ubusobanuro bwibitsina.
2. Ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati yo gutunga igikinisho cya silicone nibindi bikinisho byimibonano mpuzabitsina?
Abakoresha bafite ibyifuzo byinshi nibisabwa kugirango banyuzwe nigitsina, bazi icyo bashaka kandi bita ku byifuzo byabo neza.
Gutunga igipupe cya silicone ni ukubera gukenera gusabana no gukundana?
Ibipupe bya Silicone bisimbuza ubuzima busanzwe no kunyurwa.Mubyukuri, birasa cyane na psychologiya y'urukundo, ariko irashaka gutunga no kuyobora umuntu.Ashobora kuba yarasubiye inyuma mubuzima busanzwe, biragoye gushiraho umubano mwiza, cyangwa bimwe mubyo akeneye mumitekerereze ntibishobora kuboneka mubyukuri, kubwisi rero, kugirango uhaze iki gice cyibitekerezo.
Ibipupe bya Silicone bifite ikindi kintu.Bafite imbabazi zabo kandi ntibashobora kurwanywa.Nyirubwite afite kugenzura igipupe, kimeze nka SM (somasochism).Abantu bamwe ntibashobora kwerekana ibyifuzo byabo hamwe numukunzi nyawe, bityo akabona kunyurwa nigipupe.
Nibyo, abakoresha bamwe bazagira imitekerereze ya "Ntukavuge kuryamana nanjye, ngira ngo ni umwanda, ndashaka kuba mwiza".Ariko uko tubibona, imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo yanduye, waba ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa utayikora, nibyo wahisemo.
Abakoresha bazafata ibipupe nkinshuti zabo, abagore, abagore bapfuye, nabakobwa.Birashoboka ko igipupe gisimbuza umuntu nyawe amarangamutima?
3. Igipupe ntigishobora gusimbuza umuntu nyawe, ariko kirashobora kuzuza igice cyo kunyurwa mumarangamutima, gusana ububabare, gusana igihombo, no guhaza igice cyifuzo cya psychologiya.
Hano hari ibitekerezo hagati yamarangamutima yukuri yabantu, ni ukuvuga ko mfite amarangamutima kuri wewe, kandi ufite amarangamutima kuri njye.Igipupe cyigana ntigishobora gusubiza amarangamutima yacyo, cyangwa ko ibitekerezo byamarangamutima bitekerezwa gusa nabakoresha.
Kurugero, iyo nguze umwambaro wumukobwa wanjye, umukobwa wanjye ashobora kugaragara nkubukonje cyangwa yishimye.Azavuga ati: “Data, ntabwo nkunda iyi myambarire.”Ariko igipupe ntigishobora kugira ibitekerezo nkibi.
4. Amarangamutima nyayo afite imbaraga mubantu kandi azagira ingaruka kubantu no kubahindura.Mubuzima busanzwe, abantu bafite ubufasha bwinshi nubushobozi buke.Ibitekerezo birashobora rwose kuzana abantu umunezero.Irema ahantu hizewe kugirango abantu baruhuke kandi bakine.Ariko burigihe burigihe isi yonyine, ntabwo ari ibitekerezo byukuri biva hanze.
5. Iyo abantu bafite ubucuti nyabwo, kuki bakeneye ibikinisho bya silicone?
Ubucuti nyabwo buringaniye kandi bwigenga.Ku ruhande rumwe, ibipupe bya silicone nabyo byerekana ubushake bwo kugenzura imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi kutagenzura kwabantu nyabo birakomeye.
Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe bwerekana ko umubare munini wabagabo bagikinisha nyuma yubukwe.Mugihe wowe na mugenzi wawe udashobora kumvikana kubyerekeranye nigitsina n'amarangamutima binyuze mubiganiro, bakeneye kunyurwa mubundi buryo.
6. Ni ubuhe buryo bwo mu mutwe abagore bemera abo bakundana bafite ibipupe bya silicone muri rusange?
Igisubizo: Abagore benshi bazagira imitekerereze yo guhangana na nyirabuja wumugabo wabo, "igikinisho cya silicone cyaratsinze" cyangwa ngo "Nta gikundiro mfite", ubu bwoko bwo gucika intege buzagaragara, ariko ntibikenewe.
Ibipupe bya silicone nibintu byo hanze gusa, ariko turashobora gukoresha ibipupe bya silicone nkindorerwamo kugirango twumve isano y amarangamutima hagati yimpande zombi, kuvugana nabafatanyabikorwa, kuki umuntu akenera ibipupe bya silicone, nibibazo byamarangamutima yabantu bombi.
7. Abagore bakeneye ibipupe bya silicone?
Mubisanzwe amarangamutima y'abagore n'amarangamutima birakaze kandi bigoye.Bumva ko amarangamutima n'imibonano mpuzabitsina bifitanye isano, kandi bakeneye umuntu ubakunda.Biragoye kubipupe bya silicone kubaha urukundo rwumwuka.Guhuza ibitsina byabagabo biroroshye kandi biroroshye.Nibyo, iri ni ihitamo ryumuntu, kandi rifite aho rihuriye nuburere bwumuco numuntu.
8. Ni gute isi yo hanze ikwiye kubona itsinda ryabakoresha ibipupe bya silicone?
Kubera ko ari itsinda, abandi bagomba kugira imyumvire runaka yabyo.Umuryango wose numuco biri mubihe byo kutemera ibipupe bya silicone, ndetse nabantu benshi batekereza ko arikintu kidasanzwe.
Ibipupe bya silicone bifitanye isano nigitsina kandi ni ibyerekeye ubuzima bwite, kandi ku rugero runaka bihuza ibyo abantu bakeneye ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, hari ahantu heza ho kubaho.Niba bidahindura ubuzima nakazi ka buri muntu, kandi ntibigirire nabi societe, nibyiza kutivanga.Niba ufite ubushobozi, ugomba kurushaho kuba inshuti, gusobanukirwa, no gushyigikirwa.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ukwakira-18-2021